fudge. If I were to describe this new clause in those terms, it would roughly translate as "make your own fudge" and it would go like this:
Make your own fudge kit (respect flavour)
Can be made by both sides
Your opponents' theological convictions.
Your own anger and bitterness.
As much respect as you can muster
Season with love, grace, tact
1. Try to put your own anger and bitterness to one side.
2. Place your opponents' theological convictions, whether for or against women bishops, in the bowl
3. Add as much respect as you can muster.
4. Season with love, grace, tact and pray for more if you don't have enough.
5. By this stage you should be seeing your "opponent" as your brother and sister in Christ. If not, the fudge might have a bitter taste and cause indigestion.
6. Pray that your brother and sister in Christ responds in kind - but remember you have to set the example.
Remember the fudge is yours and theirs, you share joint responsibility for whether it is bitter or sweet.